SAT-Practice Word of
the Day: ornate
Intermediate Word of
the Day: Harpy
Difficult Word of the
Day: litotes
Gifted
Guidebook:
Andrea Lobel and I have been collaborating on a draft of a "Guidebook for
the Severely Gifted". The idea is that there would seem to be lessons and
techniques for getting along in the world that might be sharable with others.
I can't speak for Andrea, but I know that for my part, I would welcome
your inputs regarding such "lessons in the art of living". Such a handbook,
although inspired by the needs of the severely gifted, if we can do it
right, could probably serve a wider audience than just the highly gifted.
(I always start these discsussions at half-past very late. I'll extend
this on the morrow.)
Severely
Gifted:
Mike Hess has been good enough to offer his advice in re the term "severely
gifted". (Mike is one of the leading pioneers in the field of marketing
research in the U. S., and presumably, in the world.) Mike writes,
"I much prefer 'extremely', or
better, 'exceptionally' gifted. These words don't have the emotional baggage
contained in the word 'severely' which too often is used in unfortunate
connections such as 'severely distressed' or 'severely injured'.
"Although I understand that the *intent*
of using "severely" is to communicate something that may need special handling,
my philosophy of communication has evolved to going at least halfway to
employ words that are more in the general vicinity of how
folks actually use them- especially when trying
to attract the attention of a target audience.
"Therefore, I'd use 'exceptionally gifted'.
It has the benefit of two
recognizable words. Also, it causes one to stop
and think:
'gifted' already implies someone exceptional, so
to employ 'exceptional' in
conjunction with gifted really suggests something
or someone
unique and different. This is exactly what the exceptionally
gifted are."
Popular
Views of the Profoundly Gifted:
(Editorial Note:It's
my understanding that the term "exceptionally gifted" refers to individuals
with IQ's in the 3-to-4 s
range, and that the term "profoundly gifted" is used to designate those
with 4 s+ IQ's. Of
course, the "severely gifted" tend to be at or above the 3 s
("exceptionally gifted") level.
One of the questions that has
engaged me lately is that of the popular perception of the super-bright.
So I began by cornering hapless bystanders within buttonholing range, and
asking them what they thought of the hyperbright. (I was careful not to
ask them what they thought of a fruitcake who would ask them weird questions
before the men with the butterfly nets caught up with him to take him back
to the funny farm.) My first helpless target was Tommie Jean. Tommie's
reaction was that she admires intelligence and wishes she were smarter.
My next victims were our sister-in-law and our niece. Our sister-in-law,
who is a teacher in a top-drawer school system, said, "They're off in a
world of their own." Our smart and beautiful niece said, "I'd be intimidated
by them. I'd be afraid to open my mouth." When I went out to buy gas, I
stopped at Shelby's 4th Avenue emporium and presented my question to its
owner. (When Tommie and I had stopped there a few minutes earlier, the
owner had faintly reminded me of Marilyn vos Savant.) The owner said that
she would have great respect for the super-intelligent, assuming that they
weren't weird or arrogant. Then she explained that she was somewhat contaminated
by having a son and a daughter with IQ's of 163 and 162, respectively.
She herself was the dummy of the family, with an IQ of "only" 157 (I asked
her for this; she didn't volunteer it.) (We're talking a very poised and
pretty woman here. You would have had to pick up on subtle cues to have
intuited the fact, through a casual encounter, that she was so intelligent.)
On the way home, we stopped at
the Cracker Barrel for supper, where I ambushed three guys at the next
table what their take on this would be. One of them said, "I'd expect him
to wear old clothes, like Sam Walton." Then he said, "I'd expect him to
lack common sense, and to be a social disaster."
(That wasn't quite the answer
I was hoping to hear.)
Today, Tommie and I attended
a Christmas reception, and I asked the two women at our table what they
thought someone who's super-smart is like. One of them said, "They're weird,
and they're socially illiterate." She went on to explain that her husband
knows this fellow who's a member of Mensa. He's very, very smart, very
sensitive to imagined hurts, and socially empowered with two left feet.
The other woman said, "Are they compassionate?" The first woman said, "No,
they're not. Well, maybe some of them are."
I've gotten similar stories from
sundry sources of ostensibly-very-bright neighbor children who lacked the
sense to come in out of the rain, and/or who were social disasters. I ran
into some of them last year at a party, and tried to draw them out. I didn't
get very far. I don't believe they thought I was bright enough to be worth
a conversation. I believe that they had IQ's that were in the 120's
and 130's. But they certainly fit the profiles of the intellectuals that
many describe.
And now for the Punch Line:
In my experiences with brighter
people than the intelligentsia that friends and strangers are describing
(and experiencing),
I haven't encountered this
kind of persona at all! In spite of whatever childhood abuse
has been visited upon our ultra-intelligent, I'm finding them to be cordial
and socially adept. Neither their appearance nor their demeanor would speak
to you of weirdness or social incompetence. They're fun to be around, and
entrancing conversationalists. So what's going on here? I don't know, and
it will be interesting to find out. One thought might be that the kind
of brilliant person who is a misfit may stand out from the crowd in a way
that advertises his or her presence, whereas others who are equally bright,
or brighter, blend in with the crowd smoothly enough that their intellectual
eminence isn't as evident. In other words, these might be maladjusted people
who are also happen to be intelligent, rather than people who are maladjusted
because
they're intelligent. But that's just putting a finger to the wind. Whatever
the reasons, it sounds as though this is giving high intelligence a bad
rap, tarred with the same brush that's being applied to these unfortunate
and socially-unpolished "intellectuals".
12-6-2000 Update:
Today, I called one of yesterday's Christmas-reception lunch-mates and
asked her to expatiate on yesterday's comments. Here's the first part of
our telephone transcript.
X:
"Bob, this is X, returning your call."
Bob:
"Hi, X! I wanted to ask you more about what you said yesterday about the
super-smart. You were saying that the really bright people that you've
known--or at least, one of them--are weird and socially illiterate. And
you were saying that your husband's friend is very sensitive to real or
imagined hurts."
X:
"Very much so. I think that intelligent people, and I may... you know,
you may just think that I'm not accurate in this, but I think that when
you're really intelligent you perceive everything around you. That's how
you accumulate intelligence a lot, and so, I've noticed that people won't
notice what's going on around them because, well, partly just because they
don't care, and partly because they aren't as aware. But I think really,
really smart people are much more aware of the world than we are. It might
even be painful. I could feel sorry for them. Maybe that's why a lot of
them are alcoholics."
Bob:
"How interesting! I'd never thought of that."
X:
"They must have had a lot of trouble getting along with other children.
Yes, I see now! That's why they can have social troubles as adults!"
Our conversation continued, with
her mentioning that the hyperbright don't much enjoy talking with people
who are much less intelligent.
X:
"It's like talking with someone who's not very bright. You don't have much
to talk about. And we don't feel comfortable talking with them. It's intimidating.
And we're... you know... a little bit envious. Of course, they say that
if you're really, really smart, you can talk with everyone.
I think they must be lonely with so few of them around. And I think some
of them are arrogant and self-centered." Slight
pause. "Bob, you aren't one of them are you? No. You're too humble
to be one of them."
Humility commanded my tongue.
A Little Later:
I'm finding this matter of what people think of the ultra-bright to be
a pretty intriguing line of questioning. You might like to try it, too.
It might be noteworthy that most of the bright examples that people are
describing probably have IQ's in the 120's, 130's, and 140's. There are
too many of them to expect IQ's much higher than that.
Patrick
Wahl's Discussion of the Word "Nonce":
Patrick has also proffered
this helpful background information concerning yesterday's word, "nonce".
In Patrick's own words,
"One word-of-the-day, 'nonce,'
has an interesting
origin, which you might want to mention.
In middle English, it was 'nones,' shortened from 'for the nones,' a typographic
shift from the earlier 'for then ones' ... where 'ones' is our word 'once'
and 'nones'" grew into 'nonce.'
"('Nones' is also noon,
and a day of the month.)"
Patrick has also provided
a better link for the discussion of the Putnam Mathematical Competition,
and I've updated links
to discussions below to reflect
this.
Patrick, thanks for commenting
on "nonce". If I said, "You're so smart!",
it would probably sound patronizing. But you are.
And now, it's time
to go massage Tommie's feet so she doesn't beat me. (Oh, I know, she's
only 5' 1".)
(You don't believe
that she'll really beat me, do you? Well it was worth a try.)
Plans
for Moving This Site:
Patrick Wahl has asked
about plans for updating the Ultra-High IQ website. I have updated it,
since it only requires a few modifications to the text. I quit updating
it because trying to maintain two similar pages on the same website was
generating a lot of confusion, causing me to eradicate one of my index
pages and its backup, and because I planned to move these pages
to the Ultranet server. I did that, but recently, we decided to switch
ISP's. After that, I got busied out with the trip to Connecticut, followed
by a wanton turkey-and-dressing-drenched Thanksgiving dinner, followed
by my new-computer Odyssey, and lots of e-mail, and... and ... and... However,
I'll check tomorrow to see if this can all be moved to the Ultranet server.
I've planned to retain Tommie's and my website frozen with all the information
that's currently on it, and to modify the new website to reflect its Ultranet
orientation. One of the questions I've had is that of what to place on
the splash page. One possibility is a lot of links. I like the idea of
graphics, but for those with 56k Internet connections, it can take a while
for images to load. Also, there's the question of what images to present.
(I think it's going to be hard to improve on Tommie's images.) What do
you think? What would you like to see?
Our Proper Place
I asked of God what life's about,
And why he reaps the dead,
And in His time, He answered me,
And this is what he said,"Your universe is like a wine:
I've corked it up to age,
To test out all its axioms
And verify its gauge."And death is a necessity
To purify the brew,
But as for man, you can't believe
I made it all for you!"No, you're a brewing accident
While I prepare the day
For one faroff, divine event
Nine billion years away
SAT-Practice Word of
the Day: irreproachable
Intermediate Word of
the Day: clerisy
Intermediate Word of
the Day: repine
Difficult Word of the
Day: daedal
Difficult Word of the
Day: cockalorum
Difficult Word of the
Day: plantigrade
Difficult Word of the
Day: rémoulade